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10 Tips For Relieving Holiday Stress

November 21, 2012 By Maaliea Wilbur, LMFT

The holidays can be a joyful time, offering a chance to reconnect with friends and family. They can also prove to be stressful and very hectic. Here are 10 tips to help you de-stress and put the fun back in to the holidays!

  1. Keep “To-Do Lists” Realistic: No holiday celebration is perfect; view inevitable missteps as opportunities to demonstrate flexibility & resilience.
  2. Know Your Spending Limit & Stick to it: Money is one of the biggest holiday stressors. This year, set a budget, and don’t spend more than you’ve planned.
  3. Share the tasks: You don’t have to do everything yourself. Share your “to do” list with others.
  4. Learn to Say “No”: It’s okay to say “no” to events that aren’t important to you. This will give you more time to say “yes” to events that you do want to attend.
  5. Get Extra Sleep: Make a conscious effort to get extra sleep. This will help you keep your spirits high during this hectic time of year.
  6. Take Breaks, Meditate, & Breathe: Spend a little time by yourself. Meditating, doing some relaxation breathing or going for a short walk can go a long way in helping you maintain balance.
  7. Keep Exercising: Exercise is one of the quickest and surest ways to boost your mood.
  8. Take Time to Plan Ahead: Hurrying to pack, rushing through stores, sprinting to make a flight – these are sure to put you in a bad mood. Plan ahead to avoid these sure-fire holiday stressors.
  9. Make Time for Real Fun: Sometimes holiday activities which are supposed to be “fun” are actually a huge hassle. Figure out ways to make time to do the things you love to do.
  10. Seek Extra Support for Anxiety: Anxiety around the holidays is very common. Talk about it with friends & family. If you continue to feel overwhelmed, consider seeing a professional to help you manage your holiday stress.

Filed Under: Stress Tagged With: holiday stress, holiday support, joy, Maaliea Wilbur, meditate, mindfulness, stress, stress relief, tips

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Comments

  1. Mary Eastham says

    November 26, 2012 at 8:53 PM

    Great post. Looks like u covered EVERYTHING! For me, learning to say ‘no’ was
    the hardest. Now I really know what makes me happy and what doesn’t
    and commit only to things that enhance my life. Yay!

    Thanks for sharing!

  2. linda says

    January 7, 2013 at 5:27 PM

    Good for you Mary! It is so important to honor ourselves and what works for the life we are trying to create for us. Thanks for commenting!

  3. Yumi says

    January 10, 2013 at 5:46 AM

    Great tips for managing stress year round as well. Thank you for posting!

  4. Bertram Cortes says

    January 19, 2013 at 9:49 AM

    can’t put my finger where i heard this before but its still interesting

    • linda says

      January 23, 2013 at 8:00 PM

      I’m glad you found it interesting!

  5. Dave Jones says

    January 23, 2013 at 2:19 PM

    Really good site, thank you so much for your time in writing the posts.

    • linda says

      January 23, 2013 at 7:57 PM

      Thanks so much for reading our blog!

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